Once in your daily life you maybe getting tired and giving up is the only option that is set on your brain, but then 'there is always a water that quince the thirst' as the saying goes. Running away because of negative setback from your environment and because you think there is no way you can go on. But a little thinking is all that will help and guide you to understand the situation. Running away is not the same as moving on, because when you slipped on the edge of the road, then it will end up on a case to case basis of your safety. After you've thought of move on, yet after a couple of months or years or even just days; That same problem came running after you. Be sure to be positive when making a moving forward decision, be optimistic about it. When you said go then go, there is no such thing as; I forget this should be that or that should be this.
There are times when we want change and moving to a new city or a new home, or changing careers. Is it the right thing at the right time. But there are also times when the urge for change is really just a desire to run away from problems that need to be faced or fixed rather than avoided then it another story. These are the kinds of problems that recur in our lives. For example, issues with coworkers that seem to arise at every job that we take, or repeatedly getting into unhealthy relationships. A move might temporarily distract us, and even cure the problem for a time, or simply by taking us out of the situation in which the problem fully manifested itself. We tend to escape away from hurts. However, the problem will eventually appear again in our new situation especially when a partner isn't coping up with his/her career. When he can't move on because there are things that he only depended on you and can't move on without you.
One way to make sure you aren’t running away from your problems is to notice whether you are moving towards something that is exciting in its own right situation, as opposed to something that is appealing only because it is not where you are now. For example, if you are leaving a city because you feel you can’t afford it, you could be reinforcing poverty consciousness, and you might find that you are unable to make ends meet in your new city as well. It would ultimately be less of an effort to stay where you are and look more deeply into your beliefs about money. You may discover that as you address these issues, you are able to make more or save money by simply changing your mindset. You may still decide to move, but it will be an act with a positive intention behind it and not an escape act, which could make all the difference.
In a relationship, we can make sure we aren't running away from unhealthy relationship. Maybe we can address the main issue that puting the relationship into unhealthy environment of the home. Maybe by giving in and taking out those that needed to be changed in order to balance and understand the behavior of every party. I know its hard for both party but if trust, understanding and patient will be insisted then I am sure there will be a change and gain, instead of running away from it. Then, at the end it will always be there running after you. And from time to time will come if the problem will not be address or solve and to some extent it will ruin both individuals life due to psychological distress.
Any pain involved in facing our issues is well worth the effort in the end. When we face our problems instead of avoiding them, we free our energy and transform ourselves from people who run away into people who move enthusiastically forward.
Decide today; focus on the goodness of your own and the goodness of the person that surrounds you or the work or situation that is killing the greatness of the daily success of your life. Keep fucos and be positive always. Prayer is always a good guidance that help you make it through. Be Courageous. ^_^
"There is always a bright sunshine after the thick dark clouds, After the rain is poured out."
Have a great day ahead.
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